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Love And Sex In China (Chinese Marriage Documentary) - Real Stories

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With an estimated 180 million singletons in China and people traditionally marrying early, the race to find a soulmate before surpassing their sell by date is frantic. Singles fairs, where CVs are passed around, speed-dating and lessons in the art of seduction are all examples of a booming westernised market. But there is a massive imbalance in the sexes due to the penchant for male offspring since the single-child policy was introduced in 1980. Future brides are in short supply and the men most likely to find a wife are those in a strong financial position. With the economic liberalisation of China and the rise of the wealthy businessman, an ancient tradition has resurged: the concubine. Young women, often students from poorer families, seek positions as mistresses at the beck and call of wealthy men. Hidden away in lavish apartments and given large sums of pocket money, they enjoy a life of ease and luxury. The wives of these men have gone to drastic measures to unveil their fickle husbands’ crimes. We take a ride with private detectives and meet the one dubbed, ’The Concubine Killer’. Want to watch more full-length Documentaries? Click here: http://bit.ly/1GOzpIu Follow us on Twitter for more - https://twitter.com/realstoriesdocs Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RealStoriesChannel Instagram - @realstoriesdocs Content licensed from Java Films. Any queries, please contact us at: [email protected] Produced by Ligne De Front
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Franklin Woo (13 hours ago)
Most Chinese men are LOSERS in terms of what Chinese women want.
Marela9 (3 days ago)
Also, I will never understand why the wife flips out on the other woman. The mistress wasn't the one promising to have and to hold. The husband is the one lying and cheating on the wife. Oh well, guess that's how they justify staying with a cheater to themselves
Marela9 (3 days ago)
It's usually the most below average looking guys who have the highest expectations from women. You're not the younger version of Brad Pitt, relax, my dude.
Darán Toibin (4 days ago)
Wing man advice Error 600
Nina Kachina (6 days ago)
What a nice ceremony those flowers were lovely and she looked just beautiful.
zen oh (6 days ago)
the real estate concubine lover say I want a quick fugg this weekend.. are you available.. the concubine replied of course you can fugg me up the flower hole.
1%RetroThomas (7 days ago)
This is so weird
Screaming Wind (7 days ago)
kyone30 (8 days ago)
Ew that towel hanging in the bathroom😅😂
Tenzin Negi (11 days ago)
I wish chinese government should solve this problem and allow couples to have more than 2 childrens.... May the problem of all han chinese be solved... Spread love and compassion not hatred...
moist faucet (11 days ago)
Chinese gov always act like parents. Public Humiliation ? really china ?
Thomas Hartmann (12 days ago)
The concubine who shows her face is fugly, her high class whoring days should be just about over
I_haz_no_comments (13 days ago)
Heard of clubbing _oh wait single man only_
jhun dionz (13 days ago)
Chinese are next to Muslims in terms of grossiness. They should marry each other!
Amanda Fahey (15 days ago)
God, no social skills whatsoever. No wonder people die alone.
Laura Legends (16 days ago)
I’m surprised the long eyelashes pickup line didn’t work ???
X H (17 days ago)
Your hands are like noodles lol
T A R S (18 days ago)
What our world has come to 😔😔
Diana Bookworm (18 days ago)
"The leftovers" "10 mil men will never meet their soul mate" Something isn't adding up there "60% of women say they would never marry a man who doesn't own property" Is this choosing beggar land?
Love, Zsazsa (12 days ago)
Diana Bookworm 🤣😂🤪😆🥴🙃
LOL, Wtf China?!
MTBR (19 days ago)
Allow a woman to marry 2-3 men and problem is solved! 😉
piggybjorn (20 days ago)
36:25 that detective dropped a white card, it looked like doing it in purpose.
lavish kussh (21 days ago)
the truth is you cannot have a gf if you dont have money
Accuracy Marked (21 days ago)
@31:44 she doesn;t have good enough body anymore to snag a rich guy....she's put on a lot of weight sitting around the free apartment.
Queen S (22 days ago)
I’d rather be single than me in an unhappy marriage
Jiaxin Xie (22 days ago)
You should put subtitles instead of dubbing
ibo vtec (22 days ago)
Umm how about they set up a program like tinder lmao
lima alpha bravo (23 days ago)
money is chinese's god..realtalk..greed at its finest
Zhang Xiaoyu (23 days ago)
The guy spears to be quite courageous but the dating venue arranged by these unmarried ‘s parents are not very well received by the youth.
vena309 (23 days ago)
This is exactly what happens when some idiot politicians decide to only allow a "one child per household" policy! Now, their country is having a crisis alert with soul mate shortage. Stupidity at it's best!
Juana Galindo (24 days ago)
Haha so this is China's reality? Lol! 😂
Rain Rain (24 days ago)
The ads is killing me
Katie Rodriguez (25 days ago)
the narrator is quite hilarious! hahaha
PATRIOTIC RED MAN (26 days ago)
American men have the big magic stick.Asian women must be tight
JadedJassy21 (26 days ago)
This narrator tho...
JadedJassy21 (26 days ago)
A woman over 25 is no longer viable? In a country with a huge gender gap...umm okay.
Adri C (26 days ago)
why do they spend all their youth with someone who buys them and then end up as left overs if you know the time will come at least prepare for it and you can't ask to marry the same type of guy that has you as concubine it's obvious they'll cheat on you too once you're too old for them
Adri C (27 days ago)
do they not have online dating it seems easier than the parents doing the job for them
MiDoRi HaRu (27 days ago)
love teacher haha
Yous Waysist (27 days ago)
Bing Bong Bing, I want a Chinese wifey.
Tom Basil (28 days ago)
The Future...will be Real Dolls & AI Dolls...much cheaper and no Headaches no Gold Diggers
U S A (29 days ago)
The concubine culture so pathetic
U S A (29 days ago)
Materialistic Buddhists... oxymoron
ThatTruckerChick82! !! (29 days ago)
Poor things.
Mr Peco (30 days ago)
@56:00 awh she is soo cutey
KentuckyRebel11 (1 month ago)
Watching women try to understand science is like watching dogs think they're people, it's adorable.
Royce RR (1 month ago)
Weirddddddd 😦
RAY RAY (1 month ago)
Sooo damn creepy....
Cressida Huavi (1 month ago)
What's wrong with his hair 😂😂😂
congo jander (1 month ago)
woman are there for you if they seen benifet in you
Melissa Recella (1 month ago)
Once my coworker found out my birthday was on the 08th, he started showing me wedding designs 😂
MCM (1 month ago)
Mens B (1 month ago)
Fake lie propaganda. China number 1
Ruben Gheraw (1 month ago)
arrange marry and parents looking for an couple is the best way to look for n partner. Even in europe and america some people are shy to approch an girl.
Ivanna (1 month ago)
glad my parents moved out of this disaster..
Frankie Feng (1 month ago)
看这个看得我要哭了 唉
Rainbow Harvest Sprite (1 month ago)
This is actually super depressing to watch.
Lovely Girl (1 month ago)
Nice ok
Night Girl (1 month ago)
Wow nice 😍😚
Eve (1 month ago)
Women in china are kind of stupid if you ask me. Dont beat the mistress, beat the husband. I dont think the mistresses were the ones who forced the men to sleep with them. It up to a husband to be faithful. Its not the responsibility of a single woman looking for money to make sure they are single are not. I understand it is common to blame the other woman though.
J L (1 month ago)
*As a white dude I can totally relate to what that guy in beginning was experiencing doing cold approach in the streets. It took me about 200 approaches like that to get my first girlfriend in a white European city. Only 100 more to get the second one. I'm improving. It can work. But damn, you have to develop a thick skin.*
Zanaxus CryptoKing (1 month ago)
A bit confused by the prices of everything. Did the commentary do an automatic currency exchange into USD or is it in RMB? A few prices that did not make sense, "half a million apartment" for that unit the mistress was staying in with 3 levels I think. Even if that was in USD, it is still kind of too cheap since I think the filming is in a tier 1 city. I will expect it to be at least 1.5mil usd. The tall concubine that did not have her face censored, she said her salary as a receptionist was 1.5k. If it is in usd, the rmb equivalent will be 10k rmb which seems a lot for just a receptionist when the median salary in a tier 1 city is usually about 6k rmb. If it was 1.5k rmb, that will seem impossible to live on. Seems like numbers/pricing are out of whack or was it lost in translation. 1300 or 1600 for manicure a month if in usd that will be 10k rmb a month just on mani/pedi, how is that possible. 60 for the manicure she just did, I see she gave 310rmb which is usd 45.5 if based on 1:6.8 exchange rate in early June 2017. I think the commentary is doing a bad job at currency conversion. The commentary is using a 1 to 5.167 rate. Therefore if using commentary conversion rate: 3 storey apartment 500k usd = 2.58mil rmb 1500 usd receptionist salary = 7749 rmb (makes more sense) What didnt make sense was do mani/pedi actually cost that much? One month of mani/pedi cost so much too.
ayleeza syahar (1 month ago)
"The line of parked cars speak everything" (28:34) Mr.Taxi driver is spilling hot hot Tea!!
Wu Tang (1 month ago)
This is cringe. I cannot keep watching. This is very awkward.
Mikayla Crosby (1 month ago)
This is very judgmental. Some people over 28 get prittier with age. Love is more importamt than a number.
heart * (1 month ago)
He's so choosy, but he don't even see how he dress up and approached each lady in a very judgemental ways..Is this the way searching for a wife ???
Jacob Haire (1 month ago)
No wonder wemon hang with other wemon
Mohamed Alfekie (1 month ago)
الشفط جنب سُوَر الصين،
jake sarms (1 month ago)
Wow - at least China is still a country. No open borders in China and the government is not trying to replace their Chinese citizens with Islam.
This is quite creepy.
tomi (1 month ago)
kuroichan101 (1 month ago)
Why are there so making comments generalizing chinese people and syaing racist ignorant stuff?
123 P (1 month ago)
This woman in blue poka Dot shirt she need to keep her nose in her own business
Nyu MB (1 month ago)
Watching this has been very interesting for me, I currently live in China and I've noticed these kind of things. I'm married with a chinese man, he isn't rich, he doesn't have a big house...but he's the most kind, respectful and affectionate man that I've ever met, he's always worried about me. It must be because I'm a foreigner and I'm adapting, for the chinese ppl there's a lot of family pressure , but I think that money is not the most important thing but the inner being... I just hope my marriage will be forever!! :)
zahrae jaafari (1 month ago)
do men have 2 d**** why do they have a mistress ?
Casually Bianca (1 month ago)
LOL _the young man is on the prowl again_
Dune 43 (1 month ago)
If you marry someone for their money, do not expect them to be faithful after your looks have gone down the toilet.
Michele Zhang (1 month ago)
I thought Muslims made it more class.
Arnold (1 month ago)
36:24 - Bumbling idiot detective, dropped his Business Card while leaving the crime scene LOL 😂
Breezy 95 (1 month ago)
No, someone placed it their like an ad.
Arnold (1 month ago)
32 year old Senior Manager..but dresses like a 16 year old High school layabout. No wonder he's getting rejected.
TheBlueFairie (1 month ago)
18:29 he lives in the underground city in Bejing. It was a bomb shelter.
Brandon Yu (1 month ago)
The trick is to practice with ugly girls first.
Elon Zak (1 month ago)
Dating market 😂😂😂
www.Ysa.co.uk (1 month ago)
You raise me uuuuuuup so I can staaand on mooouuuntaaainsss
uswatun prayitno (1 month ago)
Untung ora urip ning cina😂
Dwight Schrute (1 month ago)
If you marry the man for money, it is almost guaranteed that he'll cheat on you. The reason is because the basis of your relationship is essentially just a transaction.
Lovemore Nk (1 month ago)
Too much ads!
Nasaazi Josephine (1 month ago)
Nervous really
Agnes Mbeya (2 months ago)
The commentator sounds like gods must be crazy one..
kL (2 months ago)
okay but the narrator's Chinese pronunciations are the most cringy part of this
HelenaMikas (2 months ago)
A excellent video ..The couple at the end are lovely *
Senna458 (2 months ago)
Seems so incredibly shallow. I feel sorry for these people since they have no real concept of love.
Woojee Shin (2 months ago)
the last part about wedding ceremony, i can tell that they are modest couple who look at reality and not brainwashed by media trend. sincerely i pray for their happiness until old.
Sateisa Sateisa (2 months ago)
.....Don't try to get chicks while living in basement, go redo the house NOW!! he'd have a que of women then!
hayat love (2 months ago)
Chengyuan Xu (2 months ago)
Well on the contrast, there are concubine of males
Karl Bryant (2 months ago)
Chinese women are very materialistic
ekcentrik (2 months ago)
Why are the wives beating up the mistresses? Not that I condone violence, but your target should be those cretins you married.
ekcentrik (2 months ago)
There are more than enough men harassing women on the street. That's an awful way to meet someone.

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