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Dealing With Relationship Insecurity | 10 Tips To Handle Insecurity

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Breakup Like A Man: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/how-to-break-up-dating-advice/ Alpha M. Confidence Course: http://aaronmarino.com/confidence-course/ Subscribe To Alpha M. https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting?sub_confirmation=1 My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services and Products: http://www.aaronmarino.com Alpha M. App: http://www.alphamapp.com/ My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services: http://www.aaronmarino.com Free Hairstyle E-Book: http://http://www.iamalpham.com/ezine Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM In this video men's style, grooming, fitness, relationship and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.iamalpham.com http://www.aaronmarino.com http://www.peteandpedro.com, shares with you 10 tips for dealing with relationship insecurity. Relationships are hard enough without being super paranoid all the time. These 10 tips will help you handle your insecurity and allow you to focus on the amazing and beautiful person you have fallen in love with. Don't let your insecurities sabotage a good thing. Insecurities. We all have them whether physical, finances, material, or other. Regardless, nothing can kill a potentially great situation than relationship insecurity. We all have insecurities but managing them is a key component for a happy, healthy, and successful relationship. Aaron Marino of alpha m. presents ten tips to overcome relationship insecurity. 1. Don't judge your current relationship based on past relationship - don't make the current pay for the deeds of the past. 2. Don't confusion imagination with reality - don't read into everything. The best way to squash this is to encourage open and honest conversations from the beginning, when things are 'good'. Don't let your mind play tricks on you! 3. Stop trying to mind read 4. Once you ask, don't keep asking! - once you're there, the relationship is over from the persistent pestering. 5. Your relationship needs room to breathe - if you are constantly standing over top of the relationship, you'll smother it. You need to have your own things going on including outside interests and friends. You are individuals that came together. 6. Relationships aren't always roses and puppies - the new relationship is like walking on air. It doesn't last, however. You can't maintain that level of emotional intensity. You'll have ebbs and flows. Don't bail on the 1st sign of trouble! Keep nurturing and working, and it'll work itself out if it's supposed to. 7. Do not snoop! - if you reach that point, you'll never stop because you'll never trust them! You can misread something and turn it into a situation. 8. Go with your gut (instincts) 9. You are responsible for your happiness and only your happiness. 10. Relationships are supposed to feel good where you feel better when you're with this person.
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Emil Benzon (11 hours ago)
I wish I could deal with this voice
sharlyn tan (18 hours ago)
my ex always want to check my phone because he is scared if i may cheat on him, I always reject giving him my phone because i have alot of PORN.
franc kie (22 hours ago)
Thanks for this awesome tips new sub here
Kasey leffler (1 day ago)
Thanbk you so much I know this is a old video and you probably never read this but thank you. I struggle so much with anxiety and overthinking because of my past relationships. The first point really helped and really opened up on my insecurity about my terrible past relationships, I have anxiety about my girlfirend even though shes loving,caring, trusting and loyal and the thought would always pop up. I know the real reason is because my fear was that she was exactly like my past. Its a new relationship and she is really wanting my love and to be hers. I just needed to open my eyes and finally let my past pain go. Thank you so much, honeslty you have no idea how much this helped.
sharon kosters (1 day ago)
I really needed this video 6 years ago. I caught him in several lies, trust was broken and I did the snoop thing because he would constantly lie, and cheat-blah blah blah.A man who has nothing to hide, hides nothing. I agree the first step is to ask, but what do you do when the answer is always a lie?
Anthony Castillo (3 days ago)
Me and my girl got each other on lock down 🙄
Anthony Castillo (3 days ago)
If you have a girlfriend don’t let her have guy friends my cousin lost his girl due to a guy friend you can’t trust them
How do I handle jealousy?
MagicMikeRiot2008 (5 days ago)
I have just Recently discovered this channel your advice is really great
ThomasM1 (6 days ago)
I’m calling Opra then
Ken Ken (7 days ago)
i fuckin ❤ this man's tips
Sanchit Chhabra (7 days ago)
Alpha looks young 😶 I'll not say better but definitely youngg🙃❤
Danny Centro (9 days ago)
Not tryna be a bitch but i just feel like im giving up so much of my last high school year and being loyal to a girl that i love that lives 8000 miles away from me, but for some reason she seems to not know the things that she should and shouldn't do when she's in a relationship. Time and time again it feels like i keep giving up more than i should cause one day im gonna look behind me and she's gonna leave, and i would've already given up so much by then. Why is it that everytime i try to be the guy that loves her unconditionally and does everything to make her happy i keep getting this feeling of doubt. I keep thinking maybe its time for me to let go of this and whatever this feeling is cause everytime i talk to her she says sorry and apologizes but she continuous to do the same thing over and over again. I dont like feeling like im not the only guy she seems to care about in that way, honestly ive never been the sentimental type from a very young age, and over the years i hurt a of people and i realised that if i ever wanted to maintain a relationship and truly love someone i have to change the way i act. And in all honesty i really did change but it seems like thats not good enough, maybe im just overreacting like i normally do but this is something thats crossed my mind to many times for me to ignore it. It makes me think am i being realistic assuming i can start a life with a girl that i doubt atleast for the moment or is all this just a temporary feeling and will i probably learn to stop doubting her completely.I dont know if maybe she would appreciate me giving her less attention more or being more insensitive or caring, maybe i just poured out all my love on her to soon, or maybe i made a dumb decision even going into a relationship in the first place. Whatever it is its really fucking with my mind and i hate feeling like i dont know where my own girlfriend stands, i just dont feel like shes as about me as i am about her and if it isnt like that then its not even worth being in a relationship for me. The problem is she always feels like im attacking her when i bring stuff like this up and i hate being such a bitch even talking about stuff like this but sometimes you just need to let stuff out and off your chest cause it just becomes to heavy of a burden to carry.For the moment im not quite sure what my next move should be and how i should go about solving this problem but the thing is i really want to, i really don't wan to loose her so im going to try everything in my power to help work things out however that maybe. At the end of the day my own health and sanity has to be my number one priority and i cant let this affect my mental health so if separating is the only option in order to solve things then its definitely a route i will consider, but for now i made a promise to my girlfriend a while back that no matter happens between us i would always try my absolute best to fight and stay with her and i intend on keeping that promise cause it means so much to me, and above all she means the world to me. Sorry for all the bitching i never write this much ever, especially not online to a bunch of strangers who have absolutely no idea who i am and probably dont even care but thank you if you made this far i appreciate it and dont ever forget relationships are a blessing and that even if you dont last a lifetime with your partner you've learnt and built on the type of person you are and want to become in the future.
BRANDON GAMING (9 days ago)
You deserve my sub. Thank you for this. Seriously I need it because I'm about to destroy my relationship because of my insecurities.. I don't want it to happen. Thank you man
Genua Villa (12 days ago)
Wow all those are my husband so insecure and jealous definitely forwarding the link to him maybe he’ll get something out of it like I did.
Rich W.jr. (13 days ago)
Much love for this channel.
BeardedBill86 (13 days ago)
Turns out all the problems I thought I was being insecure about were real. Thought she was cheating, 3 months later turns out I was right. Thought she was messaging her ex, turns out I was right. Thought she was trying to screw me over financially, turns out I was right. I ignored my gut because I thought I was being "insecure", turns out I'd of been smarter listening to it. Didn't really help my insecurities when everything my gut was telling me turned out to be true.
Amanda Attefah (13 days ago)
Thank you so much it’s useful. I’m a lady but it has really helped me
Darien Maldonado (14 days ago)
Hit the nail right on the head on this video...I was looking for advices on how to deal with insecuritys and this video is me all the way it's sad to say but....it really helped me realize what I'm doing wrong as a person and gave me a different outlook in my relationship helping me save my relationship thanks alpha m.
Lycan Police23 (18 days ago)
I'm so insecure because I've never felt the love I have for my girlfriend so strongly before and I don't want it to ever end. Thank you for this!
Landon Keighin (19 days ago)
I would kill someone to be like arron
Adonis Uche (20 days ago)
Thank you man this helped
Avisen Avy (21 days ago)
I just realised I was doing all these to my gf.. someone just kill me plz 😔
Jyden Graham (22 days ago)
I relate to this so much I’m about to kill my relationship by being insecure
Angel ove Gabriel (22 days ago)
Wait I while ago I read my partner's messages and I dont feel good about it what should I do is it really impossible to stop?
Niduwara Nimnad (26 days ago)
Thank you alpha. Your videos really help me. Thanks a lot
Jodi rumfield (26 days ago)
Thank u this I hope will help me
D-Easy (26 days ago)
I'm sitting here going over every single point like...damn...I really fucked up my last relationship. I'm a paranoid mess.
Ranxer Balondo (27 days ago)
Im the man but im the one who is very jealous and the paranoid one. ☹️ can’t stop it haysh
Placebka (27 days ago)
Man, I love you! You made me feel so much better)
babbar khalsa (28 days ago)
What if ...a girl delete their msgs ... ?
All women are the same!
Depressed Guy (28 days ago)
You know what? i'll sleep this off im overthinking stuff...
Leah Rhodes (29 days ago)
Don’t overthink 😩.....that’s hard!
Khalid Maro (30 days ago)
Stop trying to mind read 👍👍👍👍
Akim Lalite (1 month ago)
But these hoes ain't loyal
kedr77 (1 month ago)
Great video - i am doing all the mistakes
HAYAT KHAN (1 month ago)
This guy is surely single
Sikandar Baig (1 month ago)
Man you are so truee😍
Sikandar Baig (1 month ago)
Well i guess im almost there ..so it over i guess😑😞😂
Shaun (1 month ago)
probably because i would be that insecure guy...I just do porn and family guy. and wedges and sour cream with chillie..
Zimo Jiang (1 month ago)
Insecurities nearly destroyed my relationship. She didn't reply since 3 days ago,I was insecure and anxious, assuming that she had abandoned me,then I texted something stupid like"you can just tell me if you want to break up.Im moving on." Later I watched this video,then deleted those messages immediately. And texted"are you alright, I'm here for you." Later she texted back:"I was in hospital, badly ill, they won't let me use phone." I won't feel insecure anymore.
إيمان (1 month ago)
*Been with my boyfriend for 4 years, he just broke it off when I started acting jealous again a few days ago. I want him back, I want to change and become secure.*
Sharon Ngugi (1 month ago)
Wow, this is the best advice about insecurities that I have received so far..
N J S (1 month ago)
Helpful af😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
N J S (1 month ago)
So a lot of people fear to propose their.....gf/bfs
joseph harry (1 month ago)
I can’t believe I’m coming back to this video. I literally changed entirely but I dropped back down to being insecure. UGH! But it’s not so bad as before which means I learned xD I will not fall again.
roger smith (1 month ago)
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Rodalyn De Vera (1 month ago)
Helps me lot
vishal bharadwaj (1 month ago)
Love u man
ItamaRart (1 month ago)
I love you man
bec knobbylock (1 month ago)
You cant mind read lol
bec knobbylock (1 month ago)
Hahaha I love this man, so funny and so real
Tom Otto (1 month ago)
Hey alpha, don’t know if you check these still but this is the only way I might be able to send a message to you. So this girl (21) and I (23) recently have confessed feelings for each other. I asked her out, she said yes but after she gets back from her 1 month study abroad. Should I be ok with this or not? I honestly have no idea how to feel
BlackHawk9615 (1 month ago)
I’ve watched so many alpha videos but this one might have impacted me the most! Every point he made related to me at different points in my life.
Mashudu Rathumbu (1 month ago)
You earned my sub 👌
minkya1010 (1 month ago)
Reminds me of a young Harvey Keitel
KevinCummings Fitness (1 month ago)
I read into too much shit
KevinCummings Fitness (1 month ago)
I overthink and end up screwing myself
Liam Gannon (1 month ago)
I watch a lot of your videos for advice, this one has been the biggest help and the most reassuring. Thank you for making this video.
Beyefendiler Kulübü (1 month ago)
This video is pure facts! i love you Alpha!
Angel Valdez (1 month ago)
Thank you, you’ve saved me.
isaiah martin (1 month ago)
It really helped
Sagar Hatekar (1 month ago)
Thank you - this helped me get through tonight. 🙏
stephanie whitesand (1 month ago)
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Rahul choudhary (1 month ago)
yeah men save my lifeeee your tips reallly work👍🏻
So pro (1 month ago)
I asked my girlfriend if a dude flirted with her and she always changed the topic what does that mean?
إيمان (1 month ago)
So pro How old are you? I’m twenty, maybe he did flirt with her but she isn’t telling you because she doesn’t want you to worry, it doesn’t mean she’s cheating or flirting back with him.
AIM_BOTZ (1 month ago)
Thank you i just got one and im very nervous i need help
cartoonie guy (1 month ago)
I suffer with depression and anxiety so the smallest little problem can be huge in my mind.
Kyle Baird (1 month ago)
some good tips few of them I does do...i neeed to stop!!!!
Gleane Jalme (1 month ago)
I am in this current situation right now. My doubts on my partner is so heightened that it is already taking a toll in our relationship. At some point I just want to break up, i feel exhausted and I think this is the best thing to do rather than getting stressed out all the time. We have had so many fights living together for like a year now. We tried to patch things up, talked and came up with some plausible solutions in order to make it work, but then again another fight will blossom after a while. I just feel like he is cheating on me. Tho sometimes I also sit back and re-think the possibility that I am overthinking. This happened when I snooped on his phone coz he told me we should exchanged passwords coz he wants to check my phone freely. I know I shouldn’t snoop but i felt like he was being unfair checking my stuff so I checked his as well. Then i found a conversation between him and another woman and some tinder application codes in different dates. So i confronted him and he explained himself. I have him another chance and he told me it will never happen again, but whenever he is using his phone he tried so hard that i will not see the screen or what he is typing. Then i saw the tinder logo again. We end up fighting so badly, he made so many explanations which for me are just lame excuses. Now im packing my stuff coz i want to move out and he is begging me to stay, telling me there is no other woman involve and he will not be begging me to stay if he is really opting to find another one. What kind of bs is this. Bcoz i love him i feel like i am being treated like a fool coz he prolly thinks his explanations will sway me. He said he will fix everything. Idk what to do. I feel so tired that i will just be doubting all the time coz of whats been happening.
Levi Lowell (1 month ago)
Thank you alpha and you have helped me big time
Evandher Brosnan (1 month ago)
Should have came here before . Anyway thanks
Christian Romero (1 month ago)
Thank you... Honestly I struggle a lot with this. I've watched you since you started YouTube and there's no one I trust more on YouTube than you. I need to try to find that middle ground where I trust. And stop letting myself get driven by peoples words
Irene Venkatesh (1 month ago)
How to help my BF for being so insecure? He is over thinking all the time.
Xivkyn Tormentor (2 months ago)
This helps a lot cause I felt insecure about my relationship with my girlfriend.
Jamie Toru (2 months ago)
This video maybe 3 years old but wow this has helped me with alot of these insecurities you have pointed and just made me realise i just need to loosen up and not be a paranoid freak thank you!!!
Alice Milanoi (2 months ago)
I needed this coz am loosing it
Drew (2 months ago)
You deserve the best and there’s always better so keep on effing
Drew (2 months ago)
Very rare for anyone to nurture and stay committed to one person for the long haul. So yeah don’t keep checking up on those who are only faithful as their options right? Whatever
Drew (2 months ago)
Cannot Mind read? but body language behavior say a lot..people’s character shows in what they’ve done and what they continue to do. it doesn’t vary very much people do not morph overnight.
Hasan Cetin (2 months ago)
My gf is like an ice queen lately. I planned a vacation and asked her when she had time, then she yelled at me saying”I told you several times, why you don’t listen,” we fight a lot now since a month, now she’s saying we shouldn’t see us a week. Guess she’s in a bad mood because I make up things in my head confronting her. She said “you always decide for me, making up thing I didn’t even do,” and so on.. but she is someone who can’t express her feelings what is making me insecure that she don’t love me, Any advice,? Is it better to break up,?
Hasan Cetin (1 month ago)
Ameenah Habibi much worse, i feel used by her, buying presents to apologize because I made a joke and she wouldn’t forgive me until I buy this and that. But I realized now, I’m in a toxic RS. Always giving my all and receiving nothing no kisses or hugs not even a thank you. I broke up once she broke up once but we’re back together. I’m not happy .. she is like a cigarette I know she is bad for me but I can’t like live without her
إيمان (1 month ago)
Hasan Cetin How are things going
evie pl4nt (2 months ago)
you look like an elf ^^
ice crystal (2 months ago)
Wtf? You remind me a lot of Perry Farrell!
Matthew Gardin (2 months ago)
Very smart video....keep them coming buddy !
Dat Weeb (2 months ago)
Wish I could’ve seen this months ago... it’s too late now. Well I’ll just have to work on myself and hope to get it right in my next relationship.
NeonMods (2 months ago)
Alpha you’ve really helped me through some really tough times in my life. I always come here for advice. Thank you 🙏
Night rider (2 months ago)
This does not work if you have anxiety disorder.
Vatsal Khalaw (2 months ago)
Can you make a video over gut instinct too ?
Fatima Baig (2 months ago)
I am a woman and have all those insecurities and it takes over me..
Madeline Bailiff (2 months ago)
This is the best
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Jillian A (2 months ago)
These are definitely the tips i needed to hear, I do a lot of what you mentioned. I overthink and create problems in my head and I don't want that to ruin something good just because of my past. Thank you for this.
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Tracy Morgan (2 months ago)
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Mgtow (2 months ago)
Women aren't worth the drama & expense. #Mgtow
Dwi Surya (2 months ago)
thanks alpha 👊😎

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