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How To NOT Be Boring | 5 Tips To Be More Interesting

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4 Conversation Starters: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/small-talk-tips-conversation-starters/ My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services and Products: http://www.aaronmarino.com Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com Best Grooming Tool: http://amzn.to/1YrOnCJ Tiege Hanley Skin Care: http://www.tiege.com All promotion and advertising inquiries: [email protected] Alpha M. App: http://www.alphamapp.com/ Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com Best Grooming Tool: http://amzn.to/1YrOnCJ Free Hairstyle E-Book: http://www.iamalpham.com/ezine Pete & Pedro: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAmAlphaM My Businesses: Alpha M. Consulting: http://www.aaronmarino.com i am alpha m: http://www.iamalpham.com Pete & Pedro: http://www.peteandpedro.com Squirrel Lab: http://www.squirrellab.com MENfluential Media: http://www.menfluential.com StyleCon: http://www.mensstylecon.com Tiege Hanley: http://www.Tiege.com The other day, Alpha received an email from a viewer questioning whether he's boring or not. He reads the email. In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro talks about being too nice and being boring. Girls don't think you're 'too nice'. She just wasn't attracted to you. Alpha adds that being boring is an epidemic of massive proportion. We are replacing experiences and learning with technology time sucks, killing time, and entertainment. Steps to Be Less Boring 1. Boring is a state of mind - people aren't boring. We feel boring. Proclaim instead that we are awesome, amazing, and interesting. 2. Be well rounded as an individual - don't just focus on one or two specific things. You need to seek out inspiration and education from the world around you. Don't isolate yourself. Learn about the world around you. Seek knowledge. 3. Try something new every single day - routine and interesting's kryptonite. Try new food, take a different route to work, listen to something else in the car... break the ruts! 4. Seek and engage someone new in a conversation every day - don't stay in a social bubble, interacting with the same people. Learn from new people to enhance your life experiences and interpersonal relationships. 5. Constantly seek self improvement - experiences create life! Try new things!
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TheChosenOne (3 hours ago)
Who will watch ur stuff if were not on the computer though ?
Joshgarcia Cariga (1 day ago)
you sir has thought me a lesson. tknk you so much man. also you look a lot like Rumlow in Captain America The winter soldier. :D
Michelle Sithole (1 day ago)
When your so bored and boring u just have to google "How to stop being boring" , the struggle us real fellas✊😝
Damo (2 days ago)
You're delusional you're not nice. "Boring is an epidemic" lol
Paper Boi (3 days ago)
I’m called a nice guy and fuck it
I can't believe this video is in my recommendation,, yt literally know what i feel
PerfectedToast (6 days ago)
Plenty of fish in the sea? Isn’t the sea full of sharks? Fake guppies? Greed? I hate that saying.
Apollo Marttinen (5 days ago)
There's a lot of fish in the sea, but you know what else there is? Trash. There's a lot of trash
Wanston Wanston Wans (7 days ago)
How to not be boring 1.watch alpha m youtube channel
Maddie Praitt (7 days ago)
Whenever I stay at someone in particular they get bored and say "your boring I wish so and so was here" and it really hurts my feelings 😕 so I want to prove them wrong
Anshul goswami (7 days ago)
Dear alpha I am so funny person, I realy cant control my this habit Plz give tips to control this
imagine having alpham as a father
Nawel Paparoti (7 days ago)
Tips on how to grab a business wisely..
Mustafa Kamal (8 days ago)
You are so fuckin awsome man!
Jœ Adzman (8 days ago)
Inspiration 💖
The Figsoledierz (9 days ago)
Amazing video
fastandfilthy (10 days ago)
this guy is looks like he would be casey neistats brother
ron smith (10 days ago)
I totally agree! To many people are stuck in the auto correct world. Engaging with others through conversation helps you become a better communicator and learning more about yourself. It’s fun to do and by stepping out of your comfort zone broadens your ability to grow!
Pragyan Thousen (12 days ago)
you r boring
Luxxias (12 days ago)
if you’re watching this video and thinking “wow im sad im watching a video of not being boring” this is alpha m. kiddos you’ll get a social advantage over everyone
Dinesh Sokkam (14 days ago)
Love ya..😍👌👌
Manos Goulielmi (14 days ago)
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Rama S (14 days ago)
My mother fuckin dry convo It happened about 5 mins ago That’s how I ended up here Me: goooddd morning 💕 Idiot: hi Me: have any plans for today? Idiot: no ME: *triggered* I swear imma murder him if he keeps going. I mean.....he has depression..I don’t know if it has anythin to do with the dry ass texting :’) He should be fkng thanks full cuz I care about his ass I’m like he’s babysitting Except for I’m 1 year younger lol
Dat King (15 days ago)
Attraction is Key.... not from one side but from both. (I'm single)😭
Pewdiepie q (16 days ago)
i love your videos!! everytime i search stuff like this i see your videos and i watch them!
eating is gr8 (17 days ago)
4:12 You know alpha dude taking about shooting yourself and slitting your throat isnt funny and don't bring them up like that because there are people who do those stuff to them selves for serious reasons and what you did is just wrong your a hypocrite 😕😒😡
Queen Bitch (18 days ago)
It's ironic. I was up all night watching YouTube and this is the video that put me to sleep
Jacob Sherrick (19 days ago)
I do the same stuff. Right dirtbikes hunt then when the faggots in soccer think there more bad ass then me I beat the shit out of them. I currently have 7 red cards this season. My team play 27 games. I missed about 14 of hem cause of red cards. All the girls surround me. So it’s not about doing the same thing it’s about doing what makes you happy. And if you have passion then you can get the girls to like you
IRobot (20 days ago)
Video starts at 1:43
santhosh valiyakolleri (22 days ago)
Your are talent
Eduardo Santos (25 days ago)
After watching this video, I subscribed to your Chanel right away!
Elisha Rajesh Elisha R (25 days ago)
How to talk when we are bored
Elisha Rajesh Elisha R (25 days ago)
I am so bored that I am going sad
jonathan salazar (26 days ago)
Your videos are interesting :3
Thãnos (28 days ago)
Hmm...i just feel so sad that watxhing how to be perfect brave boyfriend and not to be boring...why god....
Aka Semaun (28 days ago)
Directions unclear.. dick got stuck at ceiling fan
Doge Plays (30 days ago)
I feel bad for everyone her so sad Alexa play SWEET HOME ALABAMA
klimax KINGST (30 days ago)
Thank u so much
Mrmich5371 (1 month ago)
First 30 secs and I am bored off my ass. No thank you
Major Peg (1 month ago)
I'll jerk off to something different everyday, that makes me interesting
Daremonster (1 month ago)
I start to date for the first time in like 4 years and I'm a boring mother fucker literally need help. 😂😭
fiore. (1 month ago)
i'm a girl which i think doesn't make me agree any less bc man life happens to everyone and this video just helped me so much bc i just realized i'm a lazy bitch and i better move my butt, not to be interesting but to be someone and make myself grow in any sense i want. you rock it man
peter MacKenzie (1 month ago)
I have wanted that Rolex SINCE I WAS BORN!
Henchman zzz (1 month ago)
You right that social bubble 🧐
Henchman zzz (1 month ago)
Always the sad true
Fil Ip (1 month ago)
you need a really good sense of humor then you dont have to rely on conversation as much
yeah its good to be nice
Joey fordf150s (1 month ago)
He looks gay
Jun (1 month ago)
Sorry i thought he was holding a calculator for 2 sec
Clement Okoye (1 month ago)
There goes the comment section.:)
Lou is (1 month ago)
"Try somethings new every day" I guess I will watch another new movie and play a different game
Bodhi Perry (1 month ago)
Think exactly the same i think im too nice then too grumpy and now; just a boring guy....
shigsho (1 month ago)
Lose your cell phone and DON'T talk about Star Wars or Trump.
Chris Vũ (1 month ago)
I bookmarked this video 2 years ago. I was watching in awe and thought how could I ever be like that ? Time goes by fast.
PreciousSparklesx (1 month ago)
2:01 Your welcome :)
Daksh Gupta (1 month ago)
' You're gonna want to shoot yourself if you have to listen to Barbara talk about her son Tom anymore... ' Sending across a message to Barbara from Shark Tank lmao?
Santiago González (1 month ago)
i didn't knwo there were over a thousand Barbaras with a son called Tommy.....
You got a new subscriber
verity (1 month ago)
stupid tips. super useless tips.....asshole!!!
Brayden Owsley (1 month ago)
It's just hard for an introvert. I need to fix it but idk how
Joint Lucas (1 month ago)
It’s annoying cause I get called attractive but then 1 month later they say they don’t find me attractive anymore I used to be a sick puller back in high school and college now I’m 23 and I can’t do anything
nayeem patwary (2 months ago)
So boring vdo
Terence Estores (2 months ago)
I fucking love alpha m😂🤟🏻
gamerprince1999 (2 months ago)
Still though a lot of these tips are things I thought of and developed myself lol
gamerprince1999 (2 months ago)
Everything said in this video are pure facts. I agree with everything. Especially the technology bit. I need to take a fucking break from video games and Twitter browsing :/
Good luck D (2 months ago)
Can you make a video on how to make it not awkward in front of a girl? Like if you agree
Hi people I don't Know (2 months ago)
when do girls get there period? anyone seeing is at 2018
xiin (2 months ago)
nah, the fact that you're watching a video about how to not be boring is actually showing that you are aware of yourself, your flaws and you seek self-improvement. Stay positive, think positive, open your ears to everything, take every circumstance from your daily-life with another perspective like "what is this trying to teach me?", or "what is this showing me?" , "what can i learn from this?". The way we see things and perceive life differs just because of our way of seeing those things. Stay at peace, we're all blessed y'all. (sorry for mistakes, i'm still learning english)
CAPRICORN WOLF (2 months ago)
I am so fn interesting.
black fat ninja (2 months ago)
Just get some shit that gets you high and see results in morning
lulu alf (2 months ago)
1:48 true words right here
Thazetube (2 months ago)
Why am I even watching this all the girls I hang around always say I’m so entertaining lol
DabbaYabbaDo (2 months ago)
Thazetube it may be different when you get in to your teens
Gremlyn (2 months ago)
there is a bug in your eye
the plebeians (2 months ago)
thanx for your inspiring words! very usefull to me, imma put that magic to work !
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Leslie Scout (2 months ago)
appreciate it... appreciate ya..
3omar star (2 months ago)
Alpha you look sick , are you ok ?
jsg040 (2 months ago)
Mushy Kush (1 month ago)
jsg040 I've done it but I dunno what to do outside
Ethan Blickenstaff (2 months ago)
Alpha, you are the man.
Limahs O,fey (2 months ago)
Not even 3sexnds in buh
Raifrazif2 (2 months ago)
The way to not be boring especially for a teen is to not bring a phone to school or any outside activity. This will prevent them from constantly looking at their phones outdoors and experience the outside activities and actually learning new things.
adriel gomz (2 months ago)
Step 1: Smoke pot
2 Manns (2 months ago)
You can be nice just be direct and confident when you talk to her. Have some game ,be interesting , throw in some sex jokes smile , laugh you’ll be straight . Don’t think about it
2:15 "....WE are also interesting, and WE Are Venom!"
Hamett Racing #RR (2 months ago)
Your my biggest inspiration
Flexi gaming (2 months ago)
how to talk to girls on phone?
Lukas 1179 (3 months ago)
I have a question. Would you rather be with a boring/bland persionality type of person or be with a cocky/annoying/arrogant type of person. Basically would you preffer being in a quite peer or with a loud/obnoxious one.
Marmalade Stex1591 (3 months ago)
Why do I Find Most Conversations I am not involved in Quite Dull/Boring to Listen to?!, A Genuine Question!, I really do find Small Talk Quite Tedious & Monotinous & Desperately seek those People who have Sparkling/Magnetic Personalities & Genuine Conversation that Leaves You on the Edge of Your Seat Wanting More!, I Find Myself having to Fake Interest in Conversations with Strangers & even People I know so as not to Offend!, I do not think of Myself as a really Bad Person but just a Normal Below Average Person!.
Do Dy (3 months ago)
You said (earrings make you look feminine) and you wearing it 🤦‍♀️🤔
Tati (3 months ago)
Erin Francis (3 months ago)
Sad to see how many ppl are here including me
Lightnings (3 months ago)
In a nutshell: *be open for new stuff and stay curious*
always facts never (3 months ago)
Who else thought the lil dwarf elf dude was named Zelda?
always facts never (3 months ago)
Alpha elf.
David Dragan (3 months ago)
2:15 communist mode on
Abrahan Castro (3 months ago)
Thanks like what you said life is about learning trying new things they are so many things in life is to short to be boring
Le Mao (3 months ago)
Rohan Chikhalkar (3 months ago)
Well said Sir... '''
Sudeep Sharma (3 months ago)
Muuroong Geooffrey (3 months ago)
Awesome, and thank you for helping me get out my own world.

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